chazzthejazz:

Well, this looks vaguely familiar…

I used to feel this way.  2 years out of school, and I finally realized that the only two that matter are the ones on the left.  

“Things that I want to do with my life” - the single most important factor.  If you want it, you’re more likely to feel satisfied and happy.

“Things that I’m good at” - let this guide you through the things that interest you.  If you can find a way to channel what you’re good at with things that make you happy, you are more likely to find success.

“Things that my parents want me to do” - Picking what you want to do with an enormous chunk of your time should be made by you - not parents or ANYONE ELSE. 

“Things that are considered realistic occupations” - There is no such thing as a “realistic” occupation.  Don’t settle for something boring to you because it seems easy or traditional or *what you’re supposed to do*.  Occupations are actually less rigid than they sometimes seem.

my flirting technique.

The lovely moment where you shatter your iPhone and there’s two touching penises on the back.

and if you’re not sure about someone’s gender pronouns, just ask!  respectfully, of course. (✿◠‿◠)

(e.g. “what are your preferred pronouns?”)

welp.